WILL HE CHANGE HIS CHEATING WAYS FOR ME?

Woman's ears across the country have just perked up. This one question is what each of us want to know before getting ourselves involved with a guy whose track record with women has been less than successful.  There are numberous explations out there for WHY men cheat.  These explanations primarily place blame on the woman by stating that a man who cheats does so because he doesn't get  getting an adequate amount of love, attention, and affectiona man's infedeility is a natural response by a man who's natural longing for love, connectedness, afection, and attention The vast majority of these "explanations" hold the wife/gf accountable by stating that infedility is the natural reaction she either failed to give him the love, attention, and affection he required, and she was unwilling to submit to her husbands idea of

One of my best guy friends is a total player who always strings girls along. If he actually does get into a relationship, he usually winds up cheating. He says that he just hasn't met a girl who could actually hold his interest. Well, I guess he decided that I was that girl, because the other day, he confessed his love for me. I feel the same way, but I'm concerned about his cheating. He said that it would be different with me, but I'm not sure. What do you think?

Not to be a player hater, but you need to be cautious. Very cautious. If at some point he had proved to be a nice, decent boyfriend, I might say, "Go for it!" because at least you'd know he was capable of a healthy relationship. But all you have to go on is his lying, cheating track record. That should be a big flashing warning sign to stay the hell away. Another red flag: Notice how he never takes responsibility for his infidelity — he blames his bad behavior on the fact that the girls were lame, rather than admitting to his own shortcomings. This attitude is what allows a cheater to indulge in all of his selfish whims — without regard for anyone else's feelings. I know, I know. You're probably saying, "But it will be different with me. He just hasn't met The One...and I'm it!" Why is it that every woman thinks she's going to save a man from his heinous habits? The truth is, most people don't change, at least not very much. To expect that a player will magically morph into a monogamous man is asking a lot. Even if you do give it a chance, I worry you won't ever be able to trust him. Knowing what he's done to others, you don't think you'll get jealous if he comes home late one night or you catch him talking to another girl? I know you have feelings for him, and maybe it's worth a shot. Hey, I hope I'm wrong! But if he ends up doing the same thing to you that he's done to countless other chicks, you'll not only lose a boyfriend but a good friend as well.