PRODUCT FOCUS: MIA 2 by LELO

 

It’s the purse-packable, travel-ready and ultra-convenient vibe that’s small enough to go anywhere yet powerful enough to please everyone; MIA™ 2 is the go-to toy for women on the go and couples in the know when it comes to pleasure.

The MIA™ 2 is among the best external massagers available anywhere! But don't just take my word for it. Read the following reviews from other well-satisfied consumers; the rest you'll have to experience for yourself to believe!

Surprising Power

Despite being a tiny toy, MIA™ 2 packs some serious power, featuring the strongest motor to be used in a massager of its size. This comes down to the genius of LELO engineers who refined the design of the original MIA™ to accommodate new advancements in the motors we use, reflecting LELO’s commitment to continuous improvement and innovation.

Your Sensual Secret

MIA™ 2 was designed with discretion in mind, and with a look that closely resembles a tube of lipstick, it goes unnoticed when packed in a purse or overnight bag. It’s this incognito look that makes MIA™ 2 a huge hit among jet setters and in college dorm-dwellers everywhere.

Incredible Convenience

The allure of MIA™ 2 doesn’t just come down to powerful pleasures and a stylish design; it’s actually the first-ever vibrator to feature USB plug for more versatile charging. This not only makes MIA™ 2 ready to please at the drop of a hat, but makes for useful multitasking when you’re waiting for a streaming video to load!

Whether you’re a first-time vibrator buyer or the owner of many items of pleasure, solo or shared, MIA™ 2 is the LELO massager with crossover appeal!

 

DO YOU HAVE SHALLOW HAL SYNDROME?

[dropcap type="circle" color="#COLOR_CODE" background="#ff0033"]S[/dropcap]o many guys out here in Phoenix seem to be afflicted with the same sickness…..they’re looking for something that doesn’t exist.  They are so hell bent on “not settling” they pick apart every girl they’re dating and study them until they find something about them that isn’t perfect or ideal.  Then they’ll use that reason, no matter how insignificant in the over-all picture, as an excuse for why that particular female disqualifies as a potential partner.

Here are some signs his expectations are seriously unrealistic:

• He dates people who are MUCH younger than him

 

• He has the “Shallow Hal” syndrome; meaning he’s average looking (at best) and thinks he deserves to date a supermodel

 

• He’s in his 40s and have never been married or engaged

 

• He’s had his heart broken in the past

If the last relationships he’s been in ended with him being cheated on or abandoned, STEP AWAY FROM THE PENIS!!  Guys who have lost a love they didn’t have a say over loosing have an EXTREMELY difficult time reconciling the past and moving on with their life.  They’ll over-exaggerate the role their ex played in their life and compare every woman thereafter against something they’ve created to be an unreachable and impossible standard.

 

• He questions you relentlessly about your past relationships

 

• He wants you to reveal private and intimate details about your life before it’s appropriate or reasonable for him to ask

 

• He wants to spend as much time with you as possible right from the jump

 

• He studies and watches you to a point where it’s uncomfortable

 

My advice is to steer clear of these guys!  They’ll only waste your time and break your heart.  Stick to guys who have a proven track record of being in a successful relationship!!

POLL RESULTS: "HOW MANY"

In last week’s poll entitled “How Many”, I asked,

“How many sexual partners have you had?”. 

The available answers were:

(A)   1-5

(B)   6-11

(C)   12-17

(D)   18-30

(E)    Who the hell knows?

Here are the results!!

Men age 27-35 had the highest rate of participation.  A whopping 35% of participating men chose answer (E): Who the hell knows!  27% of participating men chose option (D), and estimated they’ve had between 18 and 30 previous sexual partners, and another 18% indicated they’ve had between 12 and 17.

Out of women age 27-35, 34% reported to have had between 12 and 17 previous partners, 21% estimated between 6 and 11, and 13% reported having between 18 and 30.

PREVIOUS SEXUAL PARTNERS

It is a question wondered by both lovers and public health officials alike….How many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime?

Although men report having 2 to 4 times as many sexual partners as women, statisticians claim that the number is, on average, approximately the same for both genders.

So…are men simply lying to inflate their egos? Are women lying to downplay their sexual experience?

A study conducted at the University of Michigan found that most men and women don’t intentionally misrepresent their sexual histories.  Rather, male-female differences in the methods used to estimate their number of past partners is at fault for the discrepancy.

Women are more likely to rely on enumeration, meaning, they explain the number of men they’ve slept with in the following way: “Well there was Josh, then Tom…then James, ect, ect”.  This method results in underestimation.

Men, on the other hand, are twice as likely to use “rough approximation” to answer the question.  This rough guess is known to produce an over-estimation.

So there you have it folks!! In case you weren’t aware, both men and women are sexual creatures.  The number of previous sexual partners for any large group of people, is roughly the same for both genders!

Thank so much for participating in last week’s poll!

Be sure to weigh in on this week’s poll question: What’s more important!

Click here for my advice on how to answer the "how many" question!

HOW MANY LOVERS HAVE YOU HAD? How to answer this tricky question

TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL??  THAT IS THE QUESTION!

When it comes to the question of previous sexual partners, I personally subscribe to the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell method!!  Meaning, I don’t ask him his number, and I certainly won’t tell him mine!  This technique comes highly recommended as it is of no benefit to anyone to know that your boyfriend or girlfriend has slept with half the human population.  A person wants to feel special.  Not like they’re just another notch in the belt or dent in the wall made by that annoying lose headboard you’ve been meaning to fix.

Personally, counting your lovers, or admitting to a figure, appears gauche, shallow, and/or rude.  In any relationship it is best for you and your lover to start on a clean slate.  Any lovers either of you have had in the past are of no relevance to the future of the relationship.  Any talk of past relationships should always be kept to a bare minimum, while any talk of past sexual experiences and encounters should be completely avoided at all costs!!  It’s only going to make the other person angry, jealous, and insecure.  It may also make the other person lose trust and/or respect for you subconsciously, whether it be justified or not.

When seriously prompted for an answer to this landmine of a question by my partner, I always reply by simply stating the following: “I’m a virgin, silly.  Nothing counts before you”.

ADVICE: HOW TO GET HER TO DITCH HER MAN

Here's a question from a guy wanting to know how to get the girl he's enamored with to ditch her boyfriend, and start dating him.  Read the following from SheHasaBoyfriend2:

First let me say I'm not looking to have her cheat. I'm not looking to force her to choose her boyfriend or me. I'm not looking to play dirty in anyway.

There is a girl that I've known for 15 years. We dated when we were 15 years old. And like most early high school relationships it was awkward, slobbery, and didn't last long.

Fast forward a few years and we got in touch again in our college years. At the time I didn't think much of her more than a friend. She had some different interests than me and it felt like we were looking for different things.

We split up again when I moved out of town to go to university for 4 years. When I came back and started hanging out with her again I realized how amazing she is. When I describe the type of woman I am looking for I realized I am describing her.

We're both still really close and we hang out one on one a lot. I'm not a sleezeball so I don't make moves on her while she has a boyfriend. And I'd like to keep it that way.

But how can I approach this in a way that I can kinda ninja my way in? Show her that I'm the better man for her without coming off as a shithead.

I think the two of us are fairly evenly matched as far as competition goes. We're both tall, slim and attractive guys. Though he may have me beat on charm with his damned Spanish accent.

I do have a better more stable job. But I don't think that matters much with this girl.

I think my biggest strength is how much we have in common. There are a few things we both like doing that he doesn't like doing. So it gives us an excuse to spend time with each other.

A few things I won't do:

No physical contact. She's in a relationship and I respect that. I also actually like the guy she's with. He's fun to hang out with. So I don't want to treat him like that.

No confessing my feelings. I just don't think it's very fair to her and I think it lacks tact.

So I guess bottom line is this: how would you want a man to handle this sort of situation?

Click here to read my advice to SheHasaBoyfriend2!!

HOW TO GET HER TO DITCH HER MAN

Hey Shehasaboyfriend2!!

May I suggest you reading my blog on What Women Want in a Man. Follow the general advice on what makes men attractive to women.

Other than that...here's what you do: I understand you don't want to confess your feelings. If you REALLY want to win this girl over, though you'll seriously consider doing just that. The key for making most girls fall for you is simple, first you have to shower them with attention, affection, and even material girls. Then make an ultimate grande gesture that declares your feelings for her. Tell her outright how you feel. Chances are she's going to let you down easy.

THAT'S OKAY! That's exactly what you want! Once she's accustomed to you going out of your way for her, you're going to, without warning, completely blow her off. Stop calling her back. Stop returning her texts. The few times you do speak to her, make sure to keep things short and make yourself sound per-occupied. Make sure she finds out about all the other girls you've been going out with and fun you've been having. DO NOT MAKE IT OBVIOUS THAT YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE HER JEALOUS!!!!!!! If it becomes obvious, this whole plan will backfire!!!

Once you break the regular routine of talking to her and trying to see her, she's going to be thrown off. Suddenly she'll find herself missing you and thinking about you more and more. She'll feel compelled to want to get to back to the place where you were completely head- over-heals enamored with HER again, and will begin contacting you more and more wanting to get together.

From there, take it slow. Don't ever go back to the way you were initially treating her will all the attention, nice dinners, and gifts. Rather, make her feel compelled to work for it by ditching her man. Once she does get rid of him, make sure you "reward" her by following up with another grand gesture. But that will be the final one you'll ever have to make because it will be down hill from there.

GOOD LUCK AND ENJOY!!!

XXXO,



 

 

 

 

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ISN'T IT IRONIC?

[dropcap type="circle" color="#COLOR_CODE" background="#ff0033"]G[/dropcap]uys are often very suspicious of, and perhaps even, uncomfortable with girls who know a lot about sex. 

• Admittedly, when looking for a partner men place a great deal of weight on the girl's previous sexual experiences, encounters, and attitude toward sex.

 

• They prefer a partner who is significant less sexually experienced than they, much more refrained and inhibited, and much less likely to explore and indulge upon her sexual needs and desires.

 

At the same time, the number 1 most commonly cited reason for infidelity and divorce in this country is sexual incompatibility between the 2 partners.

• Divorced men almost unanimously attribute break-downs in their former relationship to lack of adventure, frequency, and/or excitement in the bedroom.

 

Now isn't that ironic...

...DON'T YOU THINK?

 

FIRST DATE POLL

In last weeks poll I wanted to know your thoughts about where you should go on a first date.

The options were:

a.  Dinner

b.  Meeting for coffee or ice cream

c.  Going hiking or engaging in some type of physical activity, or

d.  Have drinks

 

Out of the 42 people who participated in this poll, a whopping 71% of you chose B, meeting for coffee or ice cream!!!!



 

Thanks so much for those who participated!!  Be sure to vote below in this week's poll entitled, How Many!!

Click here to read about my personal experiences with guys and "ice cream" dates!

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MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH GUYS AND "ICE CREAM" DATES

MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH GUYS AND

"ICE CREAM" DATES

 

When I saw that the participation rate of last week's pole entitled First Date had nearly quadrupled from the week prior, I smiled, and couldn't help but wonder whether some of the guys on Plenty of Fish might have made it a point to weigh in.  You see, I may have sounded off a bit in my dating profile about guys who prefer taking girls out for ice cream or coffee on a first date.  In my defense gentleman, please allow me to clarify....  Simply based on my own experiences, guys who insist on these types of extremely casual first date settings tend to fall into 1 of 4 categories:

He:


a.  Is a recovering alcoholic-- I mean come on here, we're not 12 years old! 

First dates are extremely awkward!!!  Plus, they can be boring!  I liken a first date to a job interview. I show up looking my best and prepared to endure at least an hour's worth of questions and discussion about my background, passions, likes, dislikes, blah, blah, blah. On top of that I will have to listen to him do the same for approximately the same length of time.  Why not make things a little less awkward for not only you, but mainly me, and throw a drink in the mix?

To me, unless you're Mormon, a drink is standard operating procedure for a first date!!  Even if you don't want to drink, you should at least be gentleman enough to consider the girl might want to.  I by no means suggest having more than one, however.  Two at most if the date lasts awhile.  Getting sh*t-faced or even moderately drunk is highly inadvisable and seriously unattractive!

b.  Is only looking to get his d**k wet

The whole purpose of a first date is to get to know a person.  It takes much longer to get to know anything substantive about a person in the 15 minute time-frame it takes to eat an ice cream cone.  When a guy is really interested in a girl, he'll go out of his way to make a good impression, especially on the first date!  I've found that a good way to gauge a guy's interest in you is pay attention to where he takes you on the first date.  A guy who's really interested will go out of his way to make the night special and will see to it that I have a blast.  By doing this he knows he'll be securing a second date; it's only common sense.

Taking a girl to Cold Stone doesn't exactly set the scene for romance.  It certainly doesn't provide any indication what-so-ever on the guys behalf that he's put any thought or effort into planning the date.  What it says to me is that he's not concerned with putting his best foot forward on the date and is therefore probably not all that interested in me to begin with.

c.  Is broke or cheap

Do I need to elaborate?

Or

d.  Goes on so many dates he can't afford to take me somewhere decent

This is also something I regularly come across with guys who "have a lot of options", shall we say.  This special subset of men is somewhat of a hybrid of (b) and (c), but not by choice, rather by circumstance.  They tend to go through a lot of women because they're so attractive.  Sadly, being that hot tends to work against so many of our sexy guys here in Scottsdale, Arizona...and it happens this way:

1.  The ratio of hot girls to hot guys in Scottsdale is about 1,000 to 1.  This translates into a lot of action and opportunity for that 1 guy.  This has the effect of turning the guy into an in-date-able, undesirable a-hole who's so far up his own ass he can taste what he's having for breakfast tomorrow!!  No one wants to date a douche, no matter how hot!!  Rightfully so, these types of guys end up being filtered out and cast aside, labeled as "a fun time" but never seriously considered as a potential partner by any self-respecting girl.

Eventually they find themselves in their late 40s, single, alone, not-so-hot anymore, and surfing Plenty of Fish with their severely receding hairline wondering why all the hot 20 year-olds aren't responding to their messages. (True story)


Click here to read poll results

LEAVE YOUR MARK WITH A SIGNATURE SEX MOVE

July 11, 2013

Emily Ann

To earn your great-in-bed badge, there’s one thing you must perfect: a signature sex move!!  Don't have a claim to fame? Here's 4 tips on creating your own:

• Define what you're good at.  Focus on whatever sex act you enjoy the most.  If you like doing something, chances are you’re pretty good at it and vice versa.  If you like giving massages for example, teach yourself some sensual massage techniques.

 

• Tap into your talent.  Try out a few different techniques before deciding on one to concentrate on.  If you’ve decided to become a master of oral sex, next time you do it to your partner, ask him to provide you with running commentary on how your different techniques feel.  Get him to rate each and every flick of the tongue on a scale of 1 to 10.

 

• Ask around.  Think you’ve found an erotic innovation that’s uniquely yours?  Take a quick survey of all your friends to find out how common it is and how well it’s likely to be received.  Make sure you ask a mix of same and opposite sex friends to gain both perspectives.  Too shy?  Turn to Google!

 

• Try it out!  Let all the hints, tricks, tips and research merge into one spectacular sex session with your luck, lucky partner.  First concentrate on combining everything you’ve learned, then relax and let your gut instinct guide you.  Sneak a peek to see how they’re enjoying the sensation. [space height="HEIGHT"]
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• Throw on some music and have him take a seat on the couch.  Proceed by indulging him in a slow, sexy lap dance.  Tell him he's not to touch you at all, and maintain eye contact with him throughout your "performance".

 

• Try the no hands massage.  Start by straddling his back and lean forward to use your breasts and upper body to massage his.  From there, move into sliding your entire body length and genitals over his back, thighs, legs, and bottom (so you’re climbing all over him and rubbing your body against him at the same time).

 

• Talk dirty.  Simple, but oh-so-effective.

 

• Get him to pretend to be fast asleep.  Then whisper the instructions so the game can commence: he must stay asleep to get the treats you’ve got in store for him.  Then proceed to caress, lick, stroke and suck every inch of his body, stopping the instant he “wakes” up.[space height="HEIGHT"]
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WHAT'S YOUR SIGNATURE SEX MOVE???  I WANNA KNOW!!  REPLY WITH YOUR SURE-FIRE SEDUCTION TECHNIQUE BELOW!!

 

HOW MUCH SEX SHOULD YOU BE HAVING IN YOUR MARRIAGE?

In last weeks poll, Lovin' the 480 asked "How many times a month do average married couples have sex?"  

(a) 1-3 times per month

(b) 4-8 times per month

(c) 9- 12 times per month, or

(d) 13+ times per month

According to the results, 50% of respondents answered 4-8 times per month, and 50% answered 13+ times per month.

Dr. Harry Finch, MD, author of the book Size Matters and medical expert for the Dr. Oz show, indicates the frequency to which couples have sex depends on a number of factors, including age and sex.  Because of these variables, there is no concrete number for how many times you and your partner should be having sex. However the Dr. discovered the following about the frequency to which married couples actually do engage in sex:

Married couples under the age 30 are the friskiest, and have sex an average of 112 times per year, or about twice per week.

Married couples between the age 30 and 50 have sex an average of 69 times every year (a little over once every week), and

Married couples over the age 50 have sex an average of 32 times per year, or roughly 1 every other week.

Thanks for participating in the poll!!  Be sure to weigh in on this weeks poll on what you should do on a first date!

 

HOW TO TELL WHETHER HE'D BE GOOD IN BED

HOW TO TELL WHETHER HE'S A GOOD LOVER WITHOUT GOING TO BED

 

Ever wondered whether a particular guy would be a good lover before going to the bedroom?  Here are five indicators on how to tell whether he'd be worth increasing your number:

1.  Posture

Good lovers tend to be motivated, ambitious, and possess a great deal of confidence.  These characteristics are demonstrated through a guy's posture and body language.  If he carries himself with a great deal of confidence and stands up straight with his shoulders back and tummy tucked in, chances are he's good in bed.

2.  Sense of humor

Having the ability to laugh at yourself is closely tied with sex appeal, as it indicates the person is confident.   If he isn't able to take a joke or tends to take himself too seriously, it can mean he's egocentric and is therefore only interested in pleasing himself in the bedroom.  It could also indicate that he's inhibited, uptight, or rigid which also translates to a lousy lay.

3.  Attractiveness

Despite what common sense might indicate, super good looking guys are not always good lovers.  Because they have more opportunities to have sex, they are less concerned with satisfying a woman, knowing the next is right around the corner.  Average looking guys tend to be much better lovers because they have less opportunity for sex and are therefore much more eager to satisfy the woman they're with and secure more sex from her in the future.

4.  Pet Ownership

Guys who own pets tend to be good lovers because they are accustomed to taking care of someone else's needs.  This means he will be highly attentive in the bedroom.  Another no fail indicator is the type of pet he owns.  For example, a guy who owns or trains his pet to be hyper-aggressive and ferocious might very well be suffering from a case of "small man syndrome" (i.e. he has a small penis).  He therefore feels the need to compensate by demonstrating his masculinity by showcasing his ownership of this dangerous animal.

5.  Personality/ Expressiveness

Guys who lack personality tend to lack skill in the bedroom.  Being boring and dull is not only a turn off to women, it's also a strong indicator for a lousy lay.  Guys who are good lovers are exciting both in and out of the bedroom.

 

Guys who are expressive and talk with their hands also tend to be good lovers.  This characteristic indicates a sense of being highly imaginative and creative.  He is inclined to make sex a "production" and unlikely to skimp on foreplay.

 

Here's a tip:  The flexibility and appearance of a guy's hand directly correlates to his capabilities in the bedroom and sexual style.  The more flexible his hand, the more adventurous he is in bed.  If his hand is inflexible, and he's unable to easily pull his thumb away from the main part of his palm, it indicates he's a straight, conservative lover.  Large or long and heavy thumbs mean he has a great deal of sexual energy and likes to take control.  Short thumbs mean he is weak willed and likely to cheat.  Thumbs that are set low on the hand indicate a man who's sexually unconventional in the bedroom, and comfortable with exploring his fantasies and sexuality.

Emily Ann

July 1, 2013