Emily Croushore
HOW SKIPPING FOREPLAY CAN AFFECT YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID DOWN THE LINE
[dropcap type="circle" color="#COLOR_CODE" background="#f8063b"]M[/dropcap]en...when you go to initiate sex with your partner, chances are you've been thinking about it for at least a few minutes and imagining it in your mind and how it would feel, ect. These thoughts heighten your sexual arousal and make you "horny". This makes a guy want to go to their partner and immediately take her clothes off and get it in. The problem is, at the same time, your partner's mind couldn't possibly be any further away from a state of sexual arousal. So when you confront her with your need she's probably going to get annoyed. The trick is to get her in the mood by SLOWLY initiating foreplay. You want to get her in a place where her defenses are down and she's able to relax and enjoy the sensations associated with being touched and kissed. Read more about how regularly skipping foreplay can ruin your chances of sex in the future.
The more you skip foreplay, the less sex you secure for yourself in the future. Say a man wants to have sex with his wife but she's not necessarily in the mood because she's doing other things. The man is horny and has been thinking about having sex all day. He is at a stage where foreplay is no longer needed as his thoughts about sex have successfully opened his mind to be receptive of the physical sensations associated with sex. The wife, on the other hand, as been busy doing other things and sex is no where on her mind. Her mind isn't properly positioned to be receptive of the idea, and therefore foreplay is needed.
Say the aspect of foreplay is skipped, however, and the wife indulges her husbands needs anyway without her mind being properly positioned. In such a case, the encounter is likely to be over rather quickly, before she's really even able to get to a point of reception. As a result, she thinks of the experience as being awkward and un-enjoyable. This association over time will guarantee a sexless marriage as the association between lack of foreplay and bad sex strengthens. Pretty soon, she's rather have a colonoscopy than be with her husband. This is why the importance of foreplay can NEVER be underestimated.
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