HOW TO TELL WHETHER HE'D BE GOOD IN BED

HOW TO TELL WHETHER HE'S A GOOD LOVER WITHOUT GOING TO BED

 

Ever wondered whether a particular guy would be a good lover before going to the bedroom?  Here are five indicators on how to tell whether he'd be worth increasing your number:

1.  Posture

Good lovers tend to be motivated, ambitious, and possess a great deal of confidence.  These characteristics are demonstrated through a guy's posture and body language.  If he carries himself with a great deal of confidence and stands up straight with his shoulders back and tummy tucked in, chances are he's good in bed.

2.  Sense of humor

Having the ability to laugh at yourself is closely tied with sex appeal, as it indicates the person is confident.   If he isn't able to take a joke or tends to take himself too seriously, it can mean he's egocentric and is therefore only interested in pleasing himself in the bedroom.  It could also indicate that he's inhibited, uptight, or rigid which also translates to a lousy lay.

3.  Attractiveness

Despite what common sense might indicate, super good looking guys are not always good lovers.  Because they have more opportunities to have sex, they are less concerned with satisfying a woman, knowing the next is right around the corner.  Average looking guys tend to be much better lovers because they have less opportunity for sex and are therefore much more eager to satisfy the woman they're with and secure more sex from her in the future.

4.  Pet Ownership

Guys who own pets tend to be good lovers because they are accustomed to taking care of someone else's needs.  This means he will be highly attentive in the bedroom.  Another no fail indicator is the type of pet he owns.  For example, a guy who owns or trains his pet to be hyper-aggressive and ferocious might very well be suffering from a case of "small man syndrome" (i.e. he has a small penis).  He therefore feels the need to compensate by demonstrating his masculinity by showcasing his ownership of this dangerous animal.

5.  Personality/ Expressiveness

Guys who lack personality tend to lack skill in the bedroom.  Being boring and dull is not only a turn off to women, it's also a strong indicator for a lousy lay.  Guys who are good lovers are exciting both in and out of the bedroom.

 

Guys who are expressive and talk with their hands also tend to be good lovers.  This characteristic indicates a sense of being highly imaginative and creative.  He is inclined to make sex a "production" and unlikely to skimp on foreplay.

 

Here's a tip:  The flexibility and appearance of a guy's hand directly correlates to his capabilities in the bedroom and sexual style.  The more flexible his hand, the more adventurous he is in bed.  If his hand is inflexible, and he's unable to easily pull his thumb away from the main part of his palm, it indicates he's a straight, conservative lover.  Large or long and heavy thumbs mean he has a great deal of sexual energy and likes to take control.  Short thumbs mean he is weak willed and likely to cheat.  Thumbs that are set low on the hand indicate a man who's sexually unconventional in the bedroom, and comfortable with exploring his fantasies and sexuality.

Emily Ann

July 1, 2013